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Getting back on a normal sleep schedule

Ever since I became a parent, my life has been fraught with interruptions. Work, showers, sleep, nothing is sacred to toddler needs. I find the sleep issue to be the hardest. I need about 6-7 hours of sleep a night in order to function reasonably well, and when I get woken up mid-sleep cycle, I just don’t feel rested. So then I fall asleep when I am putting my son to be at 9pm, wake up at 1am, and can’t get back to sleep. That is why all my emails are always timestamped at ungodly hours.

And then the next day, I can barely wake up when my husband is leaving for work, and the whole thing repeats itself. It drives both of us crazy, but I can’t seem to break the cycle.

So when a friend told me about Serenity Zen beverage and gave me a few cans, I figured, why not? At zero calories, it’s not like it’s going to break my careful calorie watching. So I stuck a few cans in the fridge, had one the following night, and thought it was a fluke when I started passing out over my keyboard around 11pm. The taste was pleasant, kind of like cream soda mixed with ginger ale.

I am not a big soda drinker, so it was about a week before I looked in the fridge for another can of Serenity. Much to my surprise, the three cans I thought I put in there were gone. I shrugged, stuck another three in there, and forgot about it for another few days, and those cans disappeared too.

That was when I yelled out to my husband, “Sweetie, did you drink the Serenity I had in the fridge?” Turns out he has been having a can a night for the last week. My husband travels overseas for business, so when he visits countries in an opposite time zone (ie. Malaysia, 12 hour time difference) it really messes with his internal clock. He started drinking the Serenity because he liked the taste, but kept going when it actually caused him to fall asleep at the right time every night.

I asked him, “Does it really work?” And he said, “Yeah, I got woken up in the middle of the night last night and felt really groggy, when normally I can’t go back to sleep.”

We are now on day 10 of my husband’s Serenity streak, and it shows no signs of abating. The guy has a pretty stressful life, so if something this small can help him relax at the end of the day, I am all for it.

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Update on last Neapolitan 3BR owned by developer

It’s been a few months since I last posted on this really large three-bedroom, and that’s because the apartment sale was in stasis. The main holdup was that there were tenants in place, which was making the place show REALLY badly (think three single guys with girlfriends, beer, and dirty laundry). The developer decided to vacate the unit since he is serious about selling, and as of this past Monday, the unit is vacant.

As I suspected, the unit is in excellent condition. The developer’s handyman has been going over the place with a fine tooth comb, checking electrical outlets and smoke detectors, replacing light bulbs, and repainting. It looks really good, in move-in condition.

The financials are also excellent. I filed a tax appeal on the unit, which successfully reduced the assessed value by 20%. The current taxes are $11,213, so it’s safe to say the 2011 taxes will go below $10k. A similar unit in the same building recently rented for $3,500/month, which is about the same as the monthly cost to own BEFORE income tax deductions (tax savings should put the net monthly cost under $3k).  It’s also nice to know you could always rent out the unit if necessary and cover your monthly costs. The building is almost 100% owner-occupied, and there are over $100k in reserves. The building also has the maximum in flood insurance, so you won’t have any issues with closing.

As I have said before, when you buy an apartment in a 3 year old building, you get the benefits of new construction without the hassles. You know exactly what you are getting, which for me is worth taking the plunge.

It’s a nice apartment at a decent price. The developer is offering incentives ($2,500 credit at closing to buyer + large bonus to buyer’s agent who delivers a contract). There’s not a lot of inventory on the market right now, so if you are looking for a lot of space in the city, it’s worth checking out.

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Expanded Hop bus has 3 lines around Hoboken

The green Hop line is perfect if you live in SW Hoboken & have a kid going to school @ Wallace or Brandt, great for cold weather! And the price is right at $1/ride.  Details at http://bit.ly/cJYaxk

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Staying healthy and getting great deals in South West Hoboken

Toddler swim class at Sky Club pool

Toddler swim class at Sky Club pool

For the last month, my kids have been taking part in a group swim class at Sky Club Fitness across the street from our home. I have known about the pool since it first opened five years ago, but it took a free class to get me in there. My daughter has been attending World of Wonder Daycare for summer camp (they have yoga, music and swim classes) and the owners were kind enough to include my younger child.

I was really surprised at how nice the pool was. There is a small jacuzzi that we used as a starter pool since this was the first time my son had ever been in a pool. I put swim floats on both kids and sat with my son on the steps while my daughter happily paddled away. The water was warm and the pool had seating all around the sides, which was great for my very nervous 2 year old son.

The following week the jacuzzi was closed, so we had to take the plunge into the big pool. Surprisingly, that went extremely well. My son sat on the steps with the other kids (I was happy just to get him in the water) while my daughter splashed from back and forth in the Olympic-size pool. The water only felt a few degrees cooler than the jacuzzi, and was a welcome relief from the blazing heat outdoors. I also really liked the patio doors that were flung wide open onto a sunny outdoor deck; it gave the whole area a luxurious feel, like we were on an oceangoing liner.

We have been attending classes once a week for the last five weeks, and every class has been a success. My daughter is actually almost swimming on her own, and my son has been steadily getting more confident, venturing out onto a ledge adjacent to the main steps where he can stand chest-high in the water. I LOVE the fact that the pool is across the street from our home; we take our time showering and leaving while the the kids excitedly check out the lobby fireplace and cafeteria (really wish they offered an a la carte lunch similar to airports, with prepackaged healthy sandwiches and salads). They take really solid naps after swim class and go to sleep instantaneously at night.

Since they love the pool so much, I have decided to take the financial plunge and sign up for a gym membership after swim class ends next week. Fortunately, Sky Club offers a corporate discount rate of $89/month with no signup fee (did you know that condo associations qualify? Neither did I!) and the membership advisor, Taneeka Britt, agreed to extend the offer to the three Hoboken buildings I am associated with; the Neapolitan, 133 Harrison, and the Hoboken Grande. Residents of those buildings should contact Taneeka and use the code, “MOMBLOG” to qualify for the corporate rate. There is a one-year commitment involved, but the price is $10 below the standard rate of $99/month, and there is an additional discount for multi-member households.

The best part of the deal is that if any of those buildings signs up 20 or more members, Sky Club will discount the corporate rate by an additional $10/month ($79 monthly rate), applicable to all existing members. Taneeka agreed to combine the Neapolitan and 133 Harrison for the count since one of the buildings only has a few units.

I am already planning informal swim classes with a couple of other moms since once I am a member, I can get them day passes to the pool. This is a great way to ensure my daughter continues to get the minimum 150 minutes of weekly physical activity to ensure peak health even after she starts school. I am also looking forward to tiring the kids out in the pool come wintertime when our marathon walks around Hoboken get curtailed by snow and freezing temperatures. I can also use the free wifi in the cafeteria to get some work done on days when I need to get out of the house; Sky Club Fitness has agreed to host some moms networking meetings, which is awesome.

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Is anyone looking for a large 3BR rental in Hoboken?

I just found out about a vacancy in a developer-owned unit in an elevator building. Unit is 1400 square feet, rent is $3200/month. Floorplan & photos at http://bit.ly/133harrison

7/31 Update: The apartment has been rented at the asking price. Not bad for only 48 hours on the market! The Hoboken rental market has been incredibly strong over the last few months, I am curious about the implications for the sale market.

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It’s good to have friends

I learned something new today. It turns out that when you have recessed lighting, the bulbs can be raised or lowered within the fixture. When the setting is low, the light is brighter and more widespread. After all the bulbs were lowered in my very large living room, the space was noticeably brighter.

I never in a million years would have figured this out on my own. And the best part of the experience? It cost less than a hundred dollars to have burned-out lights replaced and all the bulbs lowered.

When I started working for a local real estate developer, I didn’t expect much to come of it. We had one marketing project that was convenient for both sides to pursue, and I figured that would be it. But as is often the case with my clients, trust came along with it, and that expanded to include the developer’s contacts. Each of those chance relationships has been pure gold for me. The first was with the developer’s preferred cleaning crew, Dream Home Cleaning, the second with his construction and repair go-to man, Andy Denny.

I recently figured out I need a cleaning crew, not an individual cleaning person. My apartment is too big and messy for one person to tackle alone (it takes one person six hours to clean, and they always leave looking exhausted). Plus I don’t like to give out my house key, a personal preference that is easy to manage because I work from home. I provide access to the Dream Home ladies, a crew of four who come once every two weeks, and the ladies lock the door from the inside and pull it shut behind them when they are done.

The Dream Home Ladies do a wonderful job cleaning my apartment, dealing with endless clutter and food spills, with every surface scrubbed and shining within 1.5 hours. It’s high quality work for less than the $120 I used to pay an individual cleaning woman. Best of all, they are happy in their work, taking time out to fix my daughter’s hair and snack on ice cream with her. You know it’s a good thing when the kids are excited to see people, and my daughter knows all four ladies by name. The ladies go above and beyond to clean my very messy home, and I am grateful to them for their hard work.

I have a similar relationship with Andy Denny. I first hired Andy to install a mosaic kitchen backsplash and undercabinet lighting. He was endlessly patient with my ignorance, steering me away from halogen puck lights (prone to breakage and very high heat) and toward dimmable Home Depot LED lights. He referred me to Dykes Lumber right outside Hoboken, where I chose molding that was the correct wood type and size for Andy to stain to match the cabinets and hide the undercabinet lighting (some cabinets are not meant to have undercabinet lighting. Who knew?) Because he works for a developer, Andy has general construction knowledge (and is insured, key in condo renovations) and access to a readily available team of expert electricians, crown molding installers, plumbers, and pretty much every area of the industry. He has saved me enormous amounts of time and money by doing stuff like installing longer screws in my prone-to-break Frigidaire microwave and oven door handles (a replacement would have cost $150 plus labor; I checked), installing a $10 balcony door lock instead of the $140 Pella footbolt lock my neighbors have, salvaging ceiling light sconces to replace a broken one, replacing a nonworking bathtub drain, regrouting my bathtub, and tightening a screw on my bathroom sink drain so I don’t have to call a plumber to fix the leak, applying veneer to a deeply scratched armoire lip. None of this stuff was an emergency, but all I have to do when I have a question is text Andy on his cellphone (201-667-1806) and he pops over to my apartment the next time he has a free afternoon, which is usually within a few days.

Both Andy and the Dream Home ladies are incredibly kind and trustworthy. I have left them alone in the house with my kids while I pop out to vote or to pick up lights at Home Depot, that is how much I trust them. And none of them are trying to get rich off of me. If work takes less time than they expect, they charge me less than their original estimate. They fit me in around other jobs and charge me for the time they spend on my projects, which is usually a few hours spread out over a few days (they don’t charge me for a whole day on multi-day projects). Because I have relationships with them, they pick up needed materials for my projects when they are going by a supplier, saving me money by not making special trips.

Keeping my home in top-notch condition is really easy and affordable thanks to Dream Home and Andy. There were already a lot of reasons for me to stay in Hoboken, but add two more to the list!

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Started a professional parents consulting network

Matching parents and employers with part-time flexible consulting opportunities

Career advice, job postings and more at hobokenmomconsulting.com.

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Trying to bring the best of Brooklyn Heights to Hoboken

From Kathy Zucker: zhobokenmom@gmail.com
To: Info@notjustrugelach.com

Date: Sun, Jun 20, 2010 at 12:03 PM
Subject: Farmer’s Market in Hoboken

Hi,

I attended the Brooklyn Heights farmers market yesterday and bought buttermilk biscuits, a stromboli sandwich and apple cider donuts from you. All were very delicious. I lived in Brooklyn Heights a decade ago but moved to Hoboken to start a family because we could get a lot more space at about half the price of the Heights.

I took a look at your website and saw you are updating your NJ open air market listing, any chance you could come to Hoboken? We have a farmers market here twice a week, details at http://bit.ly/ah8Hjh.

I blog and write a newspaper column about parenting in Hoboken, and I would love to be able to sample your offerings more regularly, please let me know if there is anything I can do to help bring you here!

6/21 Update: I got a call this morning from Jeffrey Michaelson, the owner of Not Just Rugelach, and has actually been talking to someone in City Hall about coming to Hoboken! His son lives here, so he is familiar with the area, plus it is close to the Not Just Rugelach headquarters in Kearney, NJ. Thank you for adding your voice to mine, he was really touched by the emails he received and is going to stay in touch with me to let me know what happens with the local farmer’s markets.

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No-fee 2BR+den+parking in SW Hoboken

If you are looking for more space in Hoboken, the developer of the Neapolitan at 650 2nd St (between Jackson & Harrison) has a 1300 square foot 2BR + balcony + den (has a closet) available June 1. Asking rent is $3,000/month, floorplan & photos at http://bit.ly/3Aneap

Kathy
http://hobokenmomcondo.com/momblog/?page_id=2

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Living in Hoboken, hitting economic policy sweet spot

I am a third-generation Brooklynite. Leaving that borough to come to Hoboken was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. However, the math was simple. I could either work full-time to pay the mortgage on a large new construction property in Brooklyn, or I could buy a comparable property for half the price in Hoboken and stay home. The decision was a no-brainer.

After the passing of  the recent healthcare reform bill, I am doubly glad we made that decision eight years ago. The bill taxes people earning more than $250k/year, and I think that the tax load on that group is only going to increase over time as the strains of the huge Baby Boomer generation retiring and drawing on Social Security on Medicare put the federal budget severely into the red.

If my husband and I both worked full-time, we would almost certainly exceed that $250k ceiling at some point in our careers. In effect, we would be working hard and rarely seeing our kids to bring home less money.  One of the reasons why I stayed home when I became pregnant with our daughter was because I am a very good shopper. For example, I recently purchased an 8′x10′ hand-tufted wool Oriental rug and waterproof, machine-washable kid-friendly protective rug for $260 including shipping.

My goal is to maintain a good standard of living for my family while working less. Work smart, not hard. If we were living in Brooklyn, I would be facing extremely limited school choices (you either have to pay a premium to live in a school district zoned for a good kindergarten, with no guarantee there will be enough spots for your child, or else pay $25k+ for private kindergarten). It’s similar to a dartboard approach; you throw a dart at the board and hope it sticks. If your child does not do well at the school where you place him/her, then you are out of luck. Whereas in Hoboken I have about eight different viable kindergarten choices, with spots opening up throughout the year as kids move away (pretty transient population).

I didn’t move to Hoboken because of the schools, but the more I learn, the more I like. Raising a family in Hoboken is not for everyone; if you like having a lot of walkable nearby parks, restaurants and kid activities and are not bothered by small living quarters with a lot of neighbors, then Hoboken is ideal. Judging by the number of kids at the parks and families I see out on weekends now that the weather is nice, I would say that a lot of people feel the same way as I do.

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